Does she even like me?

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I told a girl that I have feelings for her. She already could understand I’m sure, but then I thought it better to let her know. She smiled a little and said that we would talk about it. Does it mean negative, since she’s taking time to talk and all means she’s unsure? I’m too afraid of getting hurt again, as my life has been all about rejecions

Category: asked August 5, 2014

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Rejections are tough and bad, but it also teaches you not to seek for love. You know you're in love when this certain someone comes unexpectedly into your life and messes it up in no minutes. XD I'm just saying. Well, it's very usual and rational for a girl to ask for some time to be able to think. From what I can see, she probably goes through some struggling, fears, doubts....something like that. I can't say that she dislikes you nor that she likes you. Don't loose your hope though and, mostly, don't press her about it. Pressure makes everything even more uncomfortable and awkward. My advice it for you to calm down, show her that you really care about her and it's not just a "game" for you, because many people do that. You know what? Just wait until this certain talk is done and don't freak out about it. Relax and take it slowly.
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Since when does declaring your love for someone get you hurt? I love you! I'm not hurt... I'm not loving you because I expect you'll love me in return. What you fear is rejection... and that is understandable. I think to a degree everyone fears rejection. The more you love yourself the easier it is to deal with rejection. There can be a point in time where you just won't care if someone likes you or not because you know you're a good person and you like yourself. When you reach this point you will find others like you because this type of personality is magnetic.

Now... unfortunately this isn't something that is easily turned on over night but at least you have a better understanding of what the problem is. So what if you told this girl you love her and she doesn't feel the same way? That is okay... she doesn't have to love you anymore than you have to love every girl that has a crush on you. Someone not feeling the same about you as you do about them is not a reflection of how good or bad a person you are.

Furthermore you are thinking about this "talk" with a negative connotation and it hasn't happened yet. Yeah she might be unsure and maybe for good reason... who knows what's happened in her life... again don't take it personal!

Be yourself... be great and good things happen.

Take Care good luck!
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Honestly, this is a tough situation. she could like you and just be scared to get hurt too, or she wants to let you down easy... either way you saying I love you shouldn't make you worried to be hurt. if she's worth you time she will give you a chance. xoxo best of luck