I don’t think it’s one of those religious questions, I just need to know if He really exists.
I’m 30 and in my childhood I’ve been taught to treat others how I would like to be treated by others. I grew up trying my best to be nice to everyone and some people throughout my early 20s complimented me for my kindness towards others and told me “all your kindness will one day come back and prize you”. I didn’t think over those words too much, I initially gave them no importance until I met my ex. I don’t know why I started dating him, maybe because I was curious about love (I’ve never had a boyfriend before him) and convinced myself I loved him, or maybe I actually did, but in all 8 years we spent together he cheated on me several times, I’ve always forgiven him, he made me promises he would not keep, I’d do anything he would tell me. We lived together a year and a half in which he would smoke marijuana or drink beer or wine all the time. He cheated on me with his best friends’ girlfriend (mother of a 7 year old) and in those years I thought all that “kindness” I gave turned into evil towards me.
I left him after 8 years. Avery short while after (a few weeks) I met my current boyfriend. He’s exactly everything I’ve always wanted in a man. He made me relax so much and gave me peace I haven’t seen in years. No words can explain how happy I am to have him. And his parents are very nice too, his mother is very religious and kind. Today we were talking about this guy that’s dying in the hospital, talking about his not very nice past and she told me “what goes around comes around, remember that if you’re kind to others, all your kindness will one day come back and prize you”
I’m pretty sure my prize was meeting my current boyfriend.
So, back to my question: is it really God who makes this kind of stuff happen?