Do you think I should end it.

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 yrs now. To be honest it feels like there is nothing left between us. We have no kind of sex life we dont really ever talk. He did cheat on me a couple years ago. I took him back but I don’t trust him. He put all his energy into his job. If there a thing at work or every one at work is going to do some thing he freaks if we cant go. I wont let him go along because when he starts drinking he wont just walk away until he wasted. Plus drinking with co workers before he has been dancing on them tried to sleep with one to find out. Well sat night all crew was going bowling I didnt want to go so we had a big fight. Now today they are all going to the bar after work and he wants to go. I told him no and now guess what a big fight. Not only do I not trust him alone without me babysitting him we have a WIC app for are two year old. that he wants me to cancel for this. Do you think the relationships worth it? Do you think he is being a ass? or am I just crazy?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked May 2, 2014

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Mommyof3

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He is nothing but a drain on you and provides no support. Drop him and move on. You have children to take care of and don't have time to waste on a petulant drunkard. Your children need a better father-figure and a better life than that.

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Humanist Hope

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If the relationship is not making you happy, then you should end it. It is not improving either of your lives. You have more important things to worry about than keeping this guy around. You deserve better.

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RunawaySpirit

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You don't deserve to have to put up with him. He doesn't sound like he really cares, and you said yourself you feel there is nothing left. I don't think the relationship is worth the struggle and the fighting it has been causing you. I'd say move on, so you can find someone who truly makes you happy and won't pick a fight over silly things.

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Abbie

U r better off without him.. he cheated on you.. n even after u guys r back..he tried to hit on coworkers. and social drinking is one thing but to get wasted always is not responsible. secondly how immature is he to pick fights about u not wanting to go to every single one of his afterwork socialising? U need some one who will be your and ur children's support system and not someone who is a liability. u shud move on

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elizabethfke12

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You deserve better. Relationships require give and take from both sides. The fact that you need to 'babysit' him, is ridiculous. A man should be exactly that- a man, not a man-child. You seem responsible and level headed and should have someone who can be the same things. It's not fun being the only one trying and why should you be the only one truly caring for your child? I'd leave. Plus, fights where he isn't getting what he wants are worthless and they will be endless as long as you stay with him. Give yourself some peace ♡

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ChildoftheUniverse

He clearly picked his work friends over you. He might not meant to hurt you but he is doing it anyway. Don't ask him to change but he would change for you if he really loves you. If he doesn't, then you should just let him go.

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Swong0914