My family seems to frustrate me more then anything!! My mom is never happy for me and never seems excited for things happening in my life. Whenever I talk to her the conversation always turns to, do you think you have help me with some bills this month? ( she stopped working when we were younger and then my dad passed away and has not worked since..) when I comment I am trying to get myself out of debt I get a quilt trip from her that she raised me and it’s my turn to help her. Then I have 4 siblings that come and go from my life. They come when they want something or contact me to find out about my life but I never hear from them again…I use to think it was something I did so I try to include them in plans but they are always busy. Part of me wants to cut all ties from them, but afraid of not having them around when I do have my own children. What do I do?