Do you guys think kissing an ex you broke up with is bad?

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Well he kissed me and I just went along with it, and we ended up kissing for awhile. I wanted to kiss him, so I didn’t have a problem with it. Im asking if it’s bad because do you think he’s only kissing me because he’s using me as physical satisfaction? I would only go as far as kissing by the way. Or because he missed kissing me? I just feel like Im being used because last night he was ignoring my texts but tweeting. He ended up texting me this morning though. I don’t know what to do or how to react. I was the one that broke up with him by the way, we just started texting again.

Category: Tags: asked January 14, 2015

3 Answers

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It's not a "bad" thing. Unless you're with someone else. But if you're single, you're free to do what you want with whomever. You say you broke up with him though, so if you don't want to be with him, like the other comment said, you don't want to lead him on. He may still be attracted to you, but it could also be very confusing. If you want him to kiss you, that's alright, but you should be clear with how you feel about him.
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If you're both single, there isn't anything morally wrong with it. If you enjoyed it, even less so. If you DON'T want to be together, then perhaps you don't want to send off the wrong signals. It could also be down to how you individually feel about one another and the break up. Follow your instinct. And possibly ask him how he feels about it.
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There was obviously a reason for breaking up with him, right? I know it's hard at the beginning of a break up, but you have to be strong about it! I was in a relationship for almost four years and out of the blue decided that it was the right time to break up with my boyfriend. It really sucked at first, but it was worth it. Be careful with this boy. Make sure that he is not trying to take advantage of you. Really ask yourself if this is what you want. Ask yourself some of these questions: Does he treat you respectfully? Is he attentive towards you? Do you feel like you can be yourself around him? Do you feel pressured to do things with him? Once again, there was a reason you broke up with him. I'm sure you're a strong girl. Stick with your gut; trust your instincts. You can't deny your feelings.