Do you feel the same about Blahtherapy?

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I’ve recently found this website and I really grew to like it, I love helping others and I love being helped myself, and I want to state that there is nothing wrong with blah therapy, I’m not sure if its just me but I’ve talked to some people (Someone named Loving Kitten recently) and we agreed on some things. The vent/listen chat is what I go most by, but I been feeling more attuned to shy away from it. When I find myself need helping some people I encounter say these things to me:

” Hey you that guy I was talking to a second ago? I’m looking for him”

“Hey I was talking to this 22 year old guy he was really sweet and cool you him?”

“Hey I just talked to this awesome chick, Im gonna go find her”

….Like really? Not me specifically but I could of been holding a bottle of pills ready to end it all and you just ditched me? (example not mine)

I would find plenty other ones which is understandable like if I was male or female, how old I was and so and so.

If you want to meet people and hook up with them or something, you should use another website, this website in my opinion isn’t mainly what that’s for. I just wonder.. do some people feel the same?

Category: asked January 6, 2014

3 Answers

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I completely agree with you. This isn't a dating site and you shouldn't disregard people who aren't who you were looking for. We're all here for the same reason, well I hope. If I was looking to hook up I'd go to a bar or an online dating site, but hooking up isn't my problem, so here I am :)
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the part i hate most was when i ask about their age and gender (i'm the venter) , thy get piss off.. I mean, why would thy get angry just because of that?? I've been a listener, ppl did the same, and i answered. Its about finding the right person for a venter to opened up, person that they'll feel that thy will understands. ITS NOT A CONTEST !!!I wonder y couldnt thy understands??
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I am very happy to have found blahtherapy. I was browsing random chat services like Omegle and offering free advice before I was made aware of BT. Now, I have a real sense of fulfillment from doing what I can to help people.

You are correct, however, in that people should not be trolling this website. It takes a serious act of apathy to troll people on a website who are just looking for help.