well I’m basically a bit lost at the moment. to cut a long story short, I’m struggling to find where i fit in at school in terms of friends. for the last two years up until the beginning of this school year, I’ve had a little friendship group of 4 (lucy, sophie, rachel and me) but we had a couple arguments and it broke up. now that its broken up I’ve realised how little friends i actually have. for the time that i was in that group of 4, i was happy with only having a few close friends, but i just don’t think thats going to work anymore. so this is the point of the question, to ask for advice on how to make more/new friends. my current situation is that lucy, sophie and i are sort of drifting about at the moment (rachel has joined another group which we don’t want to join) and hanging about just us three, and we’ve decided that we want to find new friends and a bigger friendship group together. problem is, we have different ideas about which direction we want to take. sophie seems to want to go join the huge group of girls who are nice, but well, a bit immature. (were 15) i don’t even know what lucy wants. i know this is going to sound like Im a social climber, but i would quite like to hang out with the “popular girls” in our year. i wouldn’t really call them the popular girls, as i don’t believe in all that stereotyping bullshit, but its the easiest way to explain it to you i guess. you know, the kind of girls who go to all the cool parties and have lots of friends outside of school and who go out each weekend. ok I’m really not helping myself here! i don’t really care about the parties and shit, well i do, but thats not the reason i want to be friends with them. they just seem really lovely and id like to try a bigger friendship group for once. any way, id like to be friends with these girls, but i have no idea how to go about it. I’m REALLY shy. i also really don’t want to have to leave lucy and sophie behind, but if they don’t want the same thing i might have to. i keep telling myself I’m going to talk to new people (I’ve been saying new people, they’re not really new as I’ve been in a year with them for 4 years but still) in form time and go into lunch with new people but every time i do i nearly do and then i get so nervous that i chicken out and just sit by myself on my phone. theres also a voice inside my head telling me I’m not fun enough and that no one likes me, which doesn’t exactly help. so to sum up, any advice on how to be more confident and make more friends? sorry this turned out so long!