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Decisions, decisions…

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I’d really like some help. So, as of a long time (I honestly can’t remember how long I’ve wanted to do this… Maybe since I was 12?) I’ve really wanted to cut my hair short. But I’m SO insecure with myself that I’ve never had the bravery to go through with it. But as I get older I find myself becoming a little more self-confident everyday. I really want to cut it now, but I’m in a relationship and I don’t want my partner to think it’s ugly or anything. She has said that I’d look cute with short hair, but I’m very iffy about what she says verses what she means. I mean like, if I did it would I look okay? My profile picture is me, so that might help, and also:

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Category: Tags: asked June 30, 2015

4 Answers

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There doesn't seem to be any conflict worth worrying over, if your partner has agreed that you would look just as good as you do now, then go for it. Short or long hair doesn't matter, if the person you're with accepts you for who you are then have the confidence you've mentioned to do the things you want =)
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I agree, I think you should go for it too. It's only hair after all, it will grow back! I think you would look really nice with short hair. But I guess you won't know how you feel about it until you do it. Just go for it :) If your partner ends up not liking it, it doesn't matter as long as you like it. Life's too short to not do what you want to your appearance. :)
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Hair grows back, do what you like. Even if it comes out unsatisfactory, you could always just shave it all and go for the Natalie Portman look she had in V For Vendetta.
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Alright, thank you guys. I think I might go for it after my 1year anniversary or maybe before? Hmm, decisions...