Confused about a girl

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I’m a 13 year old lesbian and I’ve had a crush on this on girl for a year. I’ve told her my feelings for her consistently, and she’s being really nice about it, she accepts me. We text a couple times a week and have one class together during school. She has always told me she’s not sure of her sexuality, and she doesn’t know because she’s too young. I’ve always thought of her as one of those really popular hot girls, mostly because she’s a cheerleader, so I tend to think of her as my straight crush, but I’m not sure anymore. She told me she wanted to be my first kiss, but that just makes me think she’s straight and curious. And a week ago she told me she wants to sleep with me, so now I don’t know what to think. Help?

Category: asked January 2, 2014

4 Answers

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It's great you have a crush, and totally normal. I but I also know how hard it could be having a crush on a straight girl. If she's definitely straight, then any leads she may be giving you is MOST LIKELY curiosity. The fact that she asked to sleep with you leads me to belive this. If you're both thirteen, you need to slow down quite a bit before getting to that. (:
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You guys should start a bit slower, tell her what you feel about her and the rush. Make sure that you don't start to soon, you could be in big trouble. All in all, good luck.
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Don't rush anything or over-think it. You're only 13. Time will tell with this case. I would suggest that you keep talking to your crush and see where it goes from there, but let her know if she ever needs to talk about her sexuality she can with you.
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Trying dating first. Go to the movies or to dinner. If it turns out that she is definitely straight, don't let her play with you. Since she is curious right now, I would let her experiment, but don't take things too far.