every time I meet someone new it’s the same deal we talk, go on dates and have sex with in the month or so I get bored of them I want a relationship I really do just I can’t seem to commit is there anything wrong with me?
There is nothing wrong with you. It happens to people. Maybe you just haven't found anyone that you can stay interested in. You haven't been very compatible with anyone you have dated? It's possible you just haven't found the right person. Either that or just have a problem with commitment possibly? Are you rushing things? Maybe you want a relationship so bad that you're pushing things faster than they need to go and it makes you get bored fast? These are just suggestions and possibilities. Some things to think about.
You hit burnout too quickly. Take relationships slower. Change the dynamic: "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got."
You have to do something different, or you are just going to go in circles.
Find someone you have something in common with and go from there. Thst way, after the initial flame dwindles down, you still have a foundation to build on instead of talk, go on dates have sex, talk, go on dates, have sex break up etc....
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