Can you love someone to much?

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I think Ilove my husband to much I always want to be with him I.need to know what he is doing at all times I get really anxious when I’m not with him he is the best thing that has happened to me I don’t want to lose him I’m afraid of that I think something.bad is going to happen.

Category: asked January 4, 2014

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I am really no expert but I don't think it's possible to love someone "too much". I believe that if you feel something, feel it with every fibre of your being. As far as your situation, (I really don't mean to seem harsh or rude or anything like that when I say this) you sound a tad bit dependant. Not in a bad way, just that you don't want to be alone. That's completely okay, just remember to let your husband breathe a little :)
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I don't know if you can love another person too much but if you let that love effect yourself or others negatively then you may need to examine how that love effects your decision making skills. My niece loves her boyfriend so much that she is willing to forgo any and all of her own needs to make him happy. That's no good. My son loved his goldfish too much when he was 4. He couldn't resist the urges to hold and pet his fish because he loved it so much resulting in the little fish's untimely death.
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yes you can .. ^^ , its like he is your world, life and soul. Anything happens to him, will kill you too.. but I agree with chard, Give him some space of his own, let him breath a little, I often ask my man whether i'm too dependant on him since i stick with him most of the days. H just said "Its ok when I'm nt busy with work" I could understand you since I'm kinda sticky too, but i think you worried too much.
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I think there is a possible way to love someone or something too much. There are people who go crazy over just one person or something and put their all into it. I don't believe someone should do that because once you do that then you are opened to being hurt. It is easy to love but it is a lot harder to let go.
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i dont think there is too much love i think maybe you just handle your love differently
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Thanks. I don't smoother him. I keep those feelings to my self that's why I get anxious
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So true on all parts..... I don't know why I'm like this , never was with other relationships.
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For what I experiences, telling your thoughts to your partner and had an open discussion can solve many problems too... If he is the reason of your fears and hurt, He is definitely the cure too.