Can someone help with procrastination?

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About halfway through the school year, I noticed that my procrastination has gotten a lot worse. It’s been affecting my schoolwork recently, and I really need to stop. I really need some advice for this!

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I am having the same pproblem right now and am comming up with a few ways to help it.Keep your electronics, books, art supplies, the things you usually procrastinate with out of your reach until you are done.Set up alarms and a certain time for doing things; make a schedule.Sorry that I don't have more answers for this, I can tell you more as I come up with them:)
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Procrastination is a natural reaction for most people, often triggered by stress and feelings of being overwhelmed with work, ironically enough. Procrastination doesn't even need a trigger to become a really bad habit. A really, really bad habit.
Here are the seven common causes and respective cures of procrastination.
1. Fear of the outcome. The best cure for this is to recognize the fear, do not avoid it. once you recognize fear for what it is, it just becomes a state of mind which you are apt to deal with.
2. Helplessness in the face of complexity. The cure for this feeling over being overwhelmed with the task is to break it down into smaller, more manageable chunks. If you have a project to do, or an essay, don't view it as a whole. Tackle one section, one part of it at a time, instead of trying to do it all at once.
3. Rebellion and laziness. If you know you have to do it, but you just plain don't want to, the simple cure here is a reward for yourself. A delicious food item often works best here for me (i.e., candy, my favorite bagel place, treating myself to a lunch out instead of out of the bag, etcetera), but using food as a reward could become an unhealthy option, so also consider rewarding yourself with other things as well.
4. Lack of motivation. The cure for this is reframing the situation. Take something that is not at all emotionally important to you, and make it important in some type of way. For example, when I have troubles deciding whether or not I'm actually going to go to class for the day, I reframe my mind remembering that if I go to class, I'll be close to that bagel shop I love, so it would make sense to grab a bagel and coffee after class, so I don't mind going anymore.
5. Lack of focus and fatigue. The simple way to deal with distractions is to eradicate them, or learn to ignore them. Distractions are everywhere -- friends, siblings and even parents, our telephones, the internet browser, your cat, and speaking of your cat, you should probably check his litter before you really sit down to do that essay, right? NO. Stop distracting yourself. This may be one of the "harder" solutions because it requires you to recognize that the issue is not simply cured. Set your phone aside and only decide to use it at set intervals at little breaks, take larger breaks after every major accomplishment in your project, essay, etcetera.
6. Not knowing where or how to start. Projects become a lot more manageable once you can visualize a start and and end point. Just viewing the project as a whole can overwhelm your mind and picture it to be a lot more disorganized and chaotic than it really is. Once you see exactly what the beginning and the end is, the middle will follow in suit and come together much easier.
7. Perfectionism. The only way to overcome perfectionism is to regularly manage and improve your skill level, to make mistakes and correct them, and then learn from them. Practice can come in all forms, including that essay you have to get done anyway.
Please see this article for further details if needed!
Fear no more, everyone experiences procrastination, and it becomes a nasty fallback for a lot of people. You are not alone! BUt you do have to stop procrastination overcoming your procrastination, and these tips and cures are a good way to start. Best of luck!
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I know this is lame, but can you try making lists and stuff? That's sort of procrastination in itself, but it has a goal at the end. Then you can cross the the things off you really need doing. And prioritise.It helps me to know what I need to do and the satisfaction of having it all done at the end and all crossed off, is great.Just a suggestion...
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I have posted an answer to a similar question before; just search for "procrastination" in the QnA section. However, the gist of things is motivation.

Everything we do, we must be motivated to do. If not, then things are hard, we half-ass them, we dislike the thought of it, etc. The other suggestions before mine are all good, and @lucyjh13 touches upon the issue in her fourth point. However, I do not think reframing the situation is of any actual help. It is like taking homeopathic medicine; at best it does something with the symptoms through the placebo effect. What you need to do is ask yourself why you are in school in the first place.

I will soon start my fifth year of energy engineering at a Norwegian university, and my goal has, from the start, been to achieve knowledge valuable to all mankind. In time, discovering what subjects I like more, I have also found that my true goal and calling is to become the world's best at what I do, and to teach it. This is my motivation. From this, the will to avoid procrastination is quite natural. It takes hard work to reach any goal, and fucking around on Facebook is never going to get you there.

If you find that you have no ultimate goal, that you do not in fact do something that fuels you and interests you and feels like the right thing for you, then you probably are right: you are in the wrong place. If you are doing something mandatory, then you have no choice. Grow a pair (female or male, your call), and just plow through it. If, however, you are doing something like higher education, then maybe such things are not for you in general, or you just in the wrong program. In any case, you ought to take a hard look at what you desire, and see if some fundamental changes ought to be made.

I do have two pieces of direct advice, though: track hours (I use an app called timesheet, that lets me track the number of hours I spend on things), and keep busy, so that you do not procrastinate (you proc. only when you are bored).

I hope it helps in some way. And that you find a way out of the boredom :-)
Ghini
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Hey, I have a problem with procrastination too. What I do is set strict time limits and break limits on myself, and then stick to them. For example, I say I'll work on French from 5 o'clock to 6 o'clock (no more, no less) and then I'll take a ten minute break. Eventually, you won't need to be so strict. Hope this helps!