boyfriend hiding something

I have the feeling that my bf is hiding something. The options range from dipping tobacco again or cheating. I know this sounds weird but he is in a good mood lately. Usually that is due to either getting some or dipping but doesnt want to admit it. He’s hidden dipping before- though i tell him i understand it helps him with stress and the only time i get upset about it is when he lies about it. I know if I ask him, he will lie if something is going on. I cant shake the feeling though. I also don’t know how to find out what he is hiding without hiring a PI and thats both overboard and expensive.

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TalkativeNc

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It sounds like your boyfriend has given you reason to distrust him by lying to you in the past. In my experience, if you don't trust the person you're dating the relationship is doomed. Whether or not he actually IS cheating or dipping is irrelevant...you don't trust him. I think it might be time to look closely at your relationship and see if it's worth staying. Unfortunately it takes 2 people to work on a relationship, and if he has given you reason to suspect something and is unwilling to work through it, then it's time to move on.

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MunchkinMommy

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Okay before we talk about just moving on, lets slow down. You only said he was behaving weird because he is in a good mood. That's not a crime. Yes you distrust him and that is a huge problem in a relationship, but if this is a serious and mature relationship you need to sit down and tell him how you're feeling. You didn't really give any evidence or signs of him cheating so I'm not sure if you really have any so you should probably just cross that off your list. If it turns out he is dipping, and that's probably it, tell him, just like you told us, that it only upsets you when he lies! If he cares about you there should be no reason why he wouldn't come clean. Communication is key here so go talk to him about it!!

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Savannah Rae