Boy I like, totally confused read below

Whenever I like a boy, I always do something to mess it up or they never like me back. I just started a new private school and I love it! Everyone is so sweet and everything. But I think I’m starting to fall in love with a boy… So since I’m new, I don’t know him very well but I’m comfortable around him, I don’t get butterflies. He nicknamed me. And whenever he sees me he always yells my nickname down the hall or highfives me and says hey! Then there was this 7th grader who asked me and him if we were going out and he said “Yup” i didn’t disagree because I was laughing. The 7th grader then asked me today if we were going out and I said “Nope” he kept asking why and I finally said “Does it seem like we’re going out?” He said “Ya. And you seem like his type. Sassy and lively.” I was laughing (again.) My friend said it was odd how much the guy I liked talks to me. How he talks to me she said. I’m confused, does he like me?

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Lin

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its probably because your young, I remember fumbling around over my first few crushes....I am not much older, but when you get to college you just sort of let the calm nature of how people go about relationship wash over you....The best way to do it is to talk to him and say either out of the blue, or leading up to it "You know....I like you." and if he doesn't get it right away just smile at him and laugh a little and say "no...I mean I like you." if he doesn't want a relationship then be cool about it and say "don't worry about it, I can deal with it on my own" and go about your day...but it sounds like he is dropping a few hints and saying things that would lead you to believe that he does like you. Trust yourself....you're strong and you're desirable and go into it with confidence. Understand that he might say no, but also know that its kind of his loss for missing out on someone like you. Stay calm, collected and take a lot of deep breaths and you will come out of it happier. This is what I would have said to myself in high school if I got the chance to go back and teach myself about this sort of thing >.<

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Lilium

It's a good possibility. If your comfortable with it, maybe sit down and try to talk to him. That's what I would do. Communication is best.

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Lightning Pizza

i have the same problem! even his little brother, and most of my friends asked if we were dating and all i could do is blush

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toni

If this were me, and I remember my 8th grade very clearly, I would be straight up. Take him aside and ask him about how he answered your friend's question abuot you two dating. Ask him if his answer was real. Does he want to date you? Make sure he knows that you want him to be clear and not joke with you. This totally happened to me, but with a bit more drama: my best friend liked one of my guy friends and I wasn't super close to him or anything, so I tried to hook her up. In turn, we started falling for each other, even though he knew I was trying to hook him up with my best friend. We eventually started dating and I told my best friend about it. I didn't want to seem like I was going behind her back. I was big time hesitant about dating him too, but even so it always seemed like we were joking when me and my guy friend were together. Eventually, I pulled him aside and told him I needed answers. He knew I was trying to help my best friend. Once you force him to put everything on the table, you'll get your answer. Until then, you'll just be playing games, and that's fun while it lasts, but it's not long term.

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DreamCity

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