I work with this amazing woman, she helped me through an abusive relationship, and more. We have been friends for years. She has become like a mother figure in my life, so sometimes i call her mom. She has a son who is as nice as she is. He is 2 years older than i, I have talked to a few people who know him and everyone says great things about him. OK….anyway, i have had this image of him, like who i want him to be, who i think he is and one day after 3 years, i finally got to meet him, and actually go on a trip with him and a few co -workers, he seemed to be the exact person i made him out to be. I got my pic taken with him,(his mom took) and he put his arm around me, we had a few drinks with a group and he smiled at me a lot….moving along, when we got back from the trip i decided to try to get to know him, i took a huge step and asked if he wanted to ‘go snowshoeing, he said yeah, but that he was busy that day, i left it open for him to to get back to me, he never did( all snow melted though)…then a few weeks later, like a month or so, i asked him to go kayaking, he didn’t answer me at all, i really dont think he got the message, this last time, and last attempt to get to know him was when i was going out for dinner and drinks with some coworkers and friends, and invited him along( he already knew half of the group) he said he was already going out, that he may see us out there,the group went out, and we were out for a while, but after a few hours the group wanted to go home, an hour and a half later the guy i like, asked of my coworkers where we were, that he wanted to meet up, but we had all gone home……….
My question is do i ask him again to go out and do something or do i leave him alone now,???????? i feel like i am being annoying, and sounding desperate.
