Angry at my best friend?

Hi, my name is Chase and I have this friend, Dylan, a brother to me, truly. He’s been an older brother to me for a long time. Several years, in fact, but I mad at him. Pissed off, annoyed.. “Why?” you ask? That’s what I’m trying to figure out. If I knew why I was so annoyed and angry at him, I’d tell you. I could be in the best of moods I’ve ever been in and the second I start talking to him, I turn into some kind of hateful beast. I have never been this way before, not for a long time, at least. It reduces me to tears when he’s not around because I’ve said some mean, hateful, disrespectful thing to him. And I say these things for no reason. No obvious reason, at least. I have no reason to be jealous of him, angry at him or annoyed with him. He hasn’t done anything to irritate me.. Why am I doing this, why to him? Why am I such an a**hole to him?

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Picklefoot

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Dig around with him for this reason. He's already aware that you act badly towards him ... I'm sure he wants to know why, too. Think of every possible reason. Maybe he's in a relationship and you don't like who he's with. Maybe he said something a long time ago that really hurt your feelings. Maybe you're going through a pretty rough time and are taking it out on him. Try to figure this out with him and work on not being so harsh to him. As long as you guys work this out together, it should be fine.

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sylph-dancer

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Are you going through a hard time at the moment? Sometimes, when we're stressed, we can subconsciously rub off our anger on them. It's important that firstly, you let him know that you're not meaning to be rude, or to hurt him in any way, but it's also important that you look deeper into your own life at the moment, and that if you are going through a lot of stress, you get professional help and work out ways to manage anger. I'm not saying you have an anger problem, but sometimes we all need to find a way to escape without hurting anyone else.

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Angel in the Snow