Am I too clingy?

I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend often talks about how attractive he finds other girls- usually I’m not bothered by it at all, because I don’t doubt for a second that he only wants me- but I worry that I’m not attractive enough, that he might be trying to tell me something. But I can’t control my height, my voice, etc. It’s been eating at me lately- should I say something about it to him, or just wait til it subsides? I’ve never gotten jealous before, so is this a temporary thing? Thanks for any help c:

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autti

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Hi autti, If something is bothering you then bring it up. You'll never know until you ask. If you don't it'll eat you up inside.

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Beautiful Butterfly

I agree with Beautiful Butterfly: if something is bothering you then you should bring it up. Personally, I feel that the comments he is making about other girls being attractive, ESPECIALLY if you are doing nothing to provoke that type of response from him, are inappropriate. It's not something he should be saying to you, and I think your response is completely understandable. I would be upset too. So talk to him about it! Maybe he doesn't realize the effect his words are having on you.But as for whether or not you are being clingy, that is definitely NOT the case. :)

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Riss

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Hmm....try to talk to him. Let him know what your feeling. It happens alot and its always good to talk to the guy.

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demi_247

Do you think there's a way I can bring it up without sounding annoying? o: I really don't want to upset him! I'm sure he'd handle it well, but he's the too good to be true type and I don't want to risk anything.

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autti