I am currently seeing a guy who is 12 years older than me. Before me, he was engaged to a girl who broke his heard and left him with nothing. I have a history of minor mental health issues and very low self esteem. I never feel like I am good enough for anyone and feel they could always do better. Steve always tries to make me feel better. He’s so lovely to me and makes me feel comfortable and like he’s in this for the long run. Just yesterday I was getting worked up about some family issues and when asking what he can do to help, I replied re-write the last 20 years? To which he responded “i can’t do that, but I can help you write the next 20 and make sure they’re good and happy”. Now this is all well and good, and I love him to pieces, but he also knows that I know there’s still pictures of him and his ex in his office.when I confronted him about this, he said I had nothing to worry about, she’s getting married. But they’re still there 3-4months later. And this morning whilst he was looking through his pockets, he pulled out a condom then put it back in the jeans he was looking through. I have the implant so he doesnt need them for me… Should I be worried or am I just over reacting? All answers will be a great help!