I started dating this guy for about four months now and everything seemed to be going great. I only see him on weekends cause he works and I go to school during the week. But recently he’s been working a lot he doesn’t get weekends off until April and he’s been working 14 hr days so he’s tired. But since this has started he barely texts me anymore, if I ask to hang out sometime during the weekend he says yes. Then when the weekend comes around he doesn’t bring it up he waits until I ask if we are going to hang out. Then he says no he’s too tired and is just going to bed. And i’ve told him that I know he’s tired and has to work so if we only hang out for even an hour just a cuddle before he goes to bed I’d be fine with that. I get upset that he can’t just tell me that he’s too tired he says he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings but it hurts more when he doesn’t talk to me. I’m starting to wonder if he is trying to distance himself or if it really is cause he’s working lots. Is he still interested or am I just being insecure (cause it wouldn’t be out of character for me haha). I just feel like if should want to see me or talk to me more….
