Am I damned if I do or am I damned if I don’t?

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I have a friend that dated this guy when we were in high school and she still thinks he likes her and of course talks about him all the time. She also will have sex with and talk to any guy. She has no standards. Well recently he came over to hang out at her house while I was there. He went away to college and just wanted to hangout as a friend I guess. He then added me on facebook and started talking to me. Which I didn’t think anything of it. I figured ok a friend. Well he told me that I looked really pretty when he seen me and he’s been really wanting to hangout with me. He recently told me he likes me. I told him I thought he had something going with my friend because she would say they had sex and she thinks he’s the one who got away yet she’s still talking to other guys. She has no standards and in fact has gone after many guys that I have liked and she knew I liked. He said no that there is nothing going on and she lies too much so he doesn’t want anything to do with that as far as a relationship (which is true she is known to lie) and that they are definitely not having sex although she’s been wanting too. But he seems really nice and I have always thought he was cute and seems pretty sincere about it, but do I take a chance with him and risk more than likely making her irate or do I miss taking a chance that could be worth it?

Category: asked May 28, 2013

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i think you should not worry about her and go out with the guy on one date. See how he is and may be just date him. You live once and don't do something that you will regret later on. HINT: Go out with the guy. She is not in a relationship with him and neither is he. So is she creates a drama i think you ought to tell her off
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Well see that is what I'm questioning. She honestly use to "steal" every guy I liked so I stopped trusting her at one point. I mean I don't think its right that she can't even be faithful in any of her recent relationships and I am an extremely honest person and have told her so. Sometimes she can be an alright friend. She's pretty dramatic and self centered, but I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to miss an opportunity that could help shape me. I believe in taking every chance I can, but I don't want to hurt anyone. But am I wrong for wanting to be selfish for once? I usually just let her have what she wants.
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she'll get over it...... your living your life for you, your not living your life for her
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Well as you pointed out she doesn't have standards. Chances are she'll just throw this guy away when she's done with her business. You should go out with him.