I’m feeling really insecure about my friendships. I moved to college, made some friends, ended up dating one of them. Not unusual. I recently broke it off, and immediately after they found out, I had almost all my male friends seriously flirting with me. Combine this with the fact that I’ve had my first experiences with catcalling and creepy guys following me around, and I’m feeling really insecure about associating with guys. Which is unfortunate, because all but two of my friends back at home are guys and I’ll be moving back this summer. I don’t know if I’ll be able to interact with them normally at this point, and that’s not how I want to live my life.
I don't think you're being too sensitive, especially if you've just been introduced to the creeps of the world. However, keep in mind that your friends are the same people they were before you realized there's some creepy dudes out there. Just be aware of the situations you're in and ALWAYS listen to your gut. It's usually right.
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