Am i being too obsessed with my boyfriend?

We’ve been together for 5 months. Lately i always caught myself thinking about him nonstop and i feel like im torturing myself for thinking of him too much. While he’s busy studying and i am at home doing nothing. I guess i need to find a job to maybe just forget about him a little bit because i am too obsessed with him. Whenever i go outside, its still him im thinking about, i always find a piece of him everywhere. Help me, what do you think i should do? I don’t want to make hin think like i am one crazy *** clingy girlfriend. And sometimes i feel like he’s too confident that i won’t get away that he’s takin me for granted sometimes because he knows that i am inlove with him head over feet.

Category: Dating & Relationships Tags: #help #omg #boyfriend #confused #sucks asked December 20, 2013

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chinadoll

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Now, all I have to go on is this question, but it sounds as though you don't have much going on in your life besides your boyfriend. If that's the case, things can't help but be a bit out of balance. Imagine trying to live on only one food. Even if it were a healthy one, that would still be a bad health plan!I'd encourage you to continue to try to find a job, as you mentioned. If/when that proves difficult, at least try to find some club or group that organizes around something you enjoy. Develop a hobby. Plant a garden. Take up knitting. Basically, give your mind a few options to choose from, and utilize that time where he's busy studying and be developing yourself as a person and expanding your mind in a way that doesn't directly relate to him. My boyfriend and I are both at different schools. I know that, if I weren't in school, I would want to be keeping busy somehow! No one is ever done growing! :)

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