either she is busy or you're in her pile of people who she doesn't go out of her way to chat with. the expendables, if you will lol. i know what that's like, so i just take the hint and don't bother with them anymore. women want what they want and don't care about anything else until they get it, everything other than what they want is expendable. men, we concede, hence why the two sexes work well in a relationship.