Am I a pervert?

bdsm is about trust, support, and love. there is communication and safe words, pre-care, after care, and so much more. There is a very large community that includes people who are more than happy to talk about their experiences and even what they wish they knew before they jumped in. As long as you are well informed and practicing safety then I can't see any reason why you shouldn't explore your sexuality. PS- you definitely aren't a pervert

You want to be careful with the BDSM because some things can cause you serious harm. As long as you practice everything with safety precautions I see it all as normal. Everyone has different desires, I don't think anything is wrong with you and I don think that your any less of a feminist. Feminism is woman trying to make things equal between men and woman. What you desire would you be WILLINGLY submitting to people. Why feminist are trying to change situations that woman UNWILLINGLY are forced into. I hope everything works out xxx

I agree with Rebe, but hey, Have fun, but be careful.

This post could help you on the feminist part:
http://pervocracy.tumblr.com/post/79911360199/i-find-it-really-tiring-when-other-feminists-do-the

Of course you aren't! As mentioned before trust and love are important things when practicing bdsm. Don't let anyone shame you for what you're into, and it doesn't make you any less of a feminist as feminists should encourage sexual freedom. Your sex life is your business, and no one has a right to judge you about it.