About girls

There is a girl that I have liked for about three weeks and we have been talking a lot. Well I thought she liked me back by how she acted toward me. So a few days ago I asked her out and she said that she didnt want to go out with me but maybe it’s because we haven’t hung out enough and she said things could change. I’ve still been talking to her every day and everything is still fine between us, I’m just worried that I might be wasting my time, also I don’t know if she has kind of forgot about me liking her, and lastly I don’t know when to ask her out again if she’ll even like me. Any help is wanted, thanks.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked October 15, 2013

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Logan

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Girls can be really weird when it comes to being asked out. I'm positive she hasn't forgotten though! She very well could like you, but maybe she wants to get to know you better. I suggest maybe giving her your number if you haven't already, and then when the opportunity arises invite her and maybe some of her friends to hangout with you and a couple friends. It could make her feel more comfortable around you and could lead to greater things. Good luck! I wish you the best.

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Erin

Girls changes perception too fast sometimes. Maybe right now, she likes you and after an hour, she already doesn't. But despite of it, girls just wanted someone who will prove their worth even if they ignore it. We usually act like we dont care but actually, we really appreciate EVERY SINGLE THING. So, don't give up. You never know when she will go out with you :)

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Ainelabs

If you're worried about "wasting your time" then you're doing this whole relationship thing wrong. If talking to her and building a friendship isn't worth the time it takes unless you'll get a romantic or physical relationship out of it, then you're not valuing her as herself, just for what she could give you.

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zebu

She might be afraid of a new experience. Maybe she has never had a boyfriend before and doesn't know what to do or expect. Or, she might be forbidden to date by her parents. I would just take a step back and treat it like a friendship so that you don't get hurt. You've already asked her. Now, the ball is in her court, and it's her move to let you know if she changes her mind. But yes, I do think it could change once she knows you better. Good luck!

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totallyunderstand

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She definitely didn't forget you asked her out! thats all she probably thinks about when your around her. now i dont want to burst your bubble but girls are very flirtatious creatures and she might like you but she might not. best advice is to go to her friends because girls tell them everything! especially if they got asked out and denied the asker. good luck!!!

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Devinne

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