A father agan at 21

Okay well you can try to talk to him about. See how well hes taking care of the kids does he have all financial stuff taken care of and does he take care of the kids. If he does you might not have anything to worry about beside That hes just not responsible. But if he doesn't have everything together you can try to talk to him. But unless there is an obvious reason the child would not be safe both the mother and the father have to give up rights in order for the child to be adopted.

ok, first, you need to mind your own bussiness. The guy is 21, a man with a family of his own . What makes you think having " the talk" would be of any help? the time for that conversation was years ago. So. you deal with the here and now ...and not say something dumb like how he should of kept it in his pants. Secondly, one sure way to drive a wedge into a brother sister relationship is for one to tell the other that they failed i raising their child, no matter how much you candy coat it, pointing out any flaws in your nephew such as you mentioned will only devide you and your brother. Thirdly, what makes you think you are qualified to decide who should raise a baby and who should not? Have you ever given a baby up for adoption? Do you think it is easy ? You make it sound as easy as picking out a movie to see. Listen you can not bag on the past , he is not your kid. in fact, he is not a kd at all anymore. Did you ever stop to think the guy is happy? It could very well be he and his wife love kids and large families...The only thing for you to do is be thankful their kids are healthy and not abused, be thankful they are happy kids with food on their plates. be thankful your brother raised a hard working, family man. As long as the children are well cared for, not neglected as long as they have food to eat , go to school and are clean...you have no right to bitch about anything.