I read recently that "virgin" used to mean a strong young woman - no sexual connotation attached. I much prefer that definition.That said, there are a lot of pressures around whether or not one is having sex in modern societies. The best advice I've heard is that if you -want- to be having sex with other people, go ahead and look for (a) consenting partner(s) and have some, regardless of how you're -supposed- to act. If you don't want to have sex with other people (or don't want to -yet-), don't have it, regardless of what labels other people might try to use on you. If you aren't sure, take some time to figure it out.And if you're really worried about how future partners will feel about a lack of inexperience, I wouldn't be (or at least, -try- not to worry). For every person who wants a partner with tons of experience, there's someone who gets a kick out of being with someone without much (or any) experience. If a potential long-term partner is really into -you-, they shouldn't care that much either way.