16 and Pregnant

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I don’t understand why i am being judged so hard now that i’m pregnant. If anything it has motivated me to get my life on track, i’m getting my diploma in a month, looking for a job, and eventually moving to Alabama with my fiance’.

I get called a whore, but it’s not like i go and sleep with the whole hood, i slept with my fiance’, and made a baby. I mean, not like we were trying but the only way that you can 100% prevent pregnancy is to just not have sex, and now-a-days every 16 year old, if not younger has sex.

I guess i just want to know who my supporters are, and exactly why i’m being downed on so much. It’s not like i’m going to be a horrible mother, or not take care of the baby. People just suck.

Category: asked April 21, 2014

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You can't listen to society, because it's the irony of that society that will only bring you down. Believe in yourself, and if this is truly what you want, if you can't imagine having any other options while being happy, then you should do it. Listen to those you trust and not the society, Cause this is the same society that tells you that abortion is wrong, but then looks down on teenage parents! The same society that sells products to promote nature hair, looks and smooth complexion with the model on the box, half photo shopped, and has fake lashes and hair extensions.
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Well!! you are very young and there are many years ahead,as you will always be a parent,not just till the child leaves home.
Once a parent always one!. You would hope some people say things because they are concerend,but we all know that's not the case.
As for being a hore or something,if your not sleeping around then your not one,so try to not worry what other's say,but remember that if you have those dreams like a job etc,that it may be a little harder for you to do with the baby,but just focus on being all the best you can.
Look now at what help you need to achieve any dreams and hang around people who want tear you down but will lift you up and support you..
I know from experiance that it isnt easy especialy in a few years to come, and being a young parent people will judge.Some times with good intentions though and at times comming from experiance,but also some times not from a good place.
Good luck with everything.