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    thefrenchdutchman posted an update 8 years, 6 months ago

    I’ve learned something important the last few days.. something people often forget. Why would you go crazy over the one you love? because you might worry? because you think that one person is unfaithful? because you’re in love with that person and think about that person 24/7?

    Forget about the negative things, that that person might possibly do something stupid, or hurt you, because if you think about them, you might lose faith and.. get drama with that person, only because you felt negatively. BUT

    WHAT IF I TELL YOU, that if you think about, what that person gives you, the way that person looks at you, the way that person smiles to you, the way that person communicates with you, the person who that person actually is, and concentrate on that, because that’s the reason you fell in love with that person in the first place, isn’t it? why would that person give you, and treat you in such a way as that person does? it’s not for no reason. so please, think first before you argument, before you start getting ideas, i’ve made this mistake many times myself, but we must learn to trust the ones we love. we must learn to respect them, and give them in return, instead of complaining about 1 thing you didn’t like of that person, and that’s where you have to admit, that nobody is perfect. You’re really gonna have to trust the one you love, and give them the freedom if they’re not with you for a while, and i’m talking about the freedom they need to do their thing. Love doesn’t work without trust.

    I’m telling you : Think.

    Mood : Serious
    • Indeed @thedutchfrenchman, relationships can be difficult but if you trust, love and have faith in each other than things will work and hopefully go well for a long time, keep spreading wise advice, I’m always here if you need to talk :)