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    safe&sound posted an update 8 years, 10 months ago

    lately, I need to be constantly told I’m loved, beautify or doing a good job to feel secure. I need help in overcoming this. Any tips?

    • i don’t believe this weekend is something you can and need to overcome, it’s natural to be in need of closure or approval. What I can advise is that you remember all the people that did call you beautiful (be it detailed or vague) and recognize them as good qualities and to be true,think about what you think makes you beautiful,what clothes you think you’d look amazing in etc.

    • Do feel yourself positive and good things everyday @youngjagirl, be kind to yourself hun, everyone deserves to feel loved, appreciated and valued, you do too, hold your head up high and see yourself in an uplifting way, remember to keep smiling and keep being the amazing human-being that you are, you can do this, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • There’s nothing wrong with needing assurance. Even the most confident individuals need it sometimes. I’ve learned that, even if no else validates you, you can still validate yourself. The security you’re looking for is within you. You’ve just gotta learn how to tap into it. Try Googling ”how to build confidence” and see what you find. (: No worries, hun. You’re doing great. <3

    • Thank you for the support