You just gotta do it man. I know it seems hard but if she likes you, nothing in the world would make her happier. Just do not make it awkward k?? That’s literally the worst thing that could go wrong. Just don’t be super cheesy like get down on your knees (unless she’s into that stuff), just kinda ask her casually but make sure you guys are alone, it makes it ten times better.
You just gotta do it man. I know it seems hard but if she likes you, nothing in the world would make her happier. Just do not make it awkward k?? That’s literally the worst thing that could go wrong. Just don’t be super cheesy like get down on your knees (unless she’s into that stuff), just kinda ask her casually but make sure you guys are alone, it makes it ten times better.
Nobody ever timidly stumbled into success. You will not find a passive and inadvertent way of asking someone out. You are going to have to compose yourself, walk up to her, look her in the eye and communicate how you feel. Even if that runs the risk of rejection.
Remember that dating isn’t just about kissing, being together, feeling the butterflies and having sex, relationships are largely about a sense of security and stability. If you convey that security and stability, you will find yourself largely attractive to other people, because that is what literally everyone is looking for in the end.
Ask yourself ”What makes a person secure? What makes a person stable?” and adopt those things into yourself so that you personify them.
It also helps to take the other person off of any pedestal you may be putting them on: for instance, nobody is perfect. Don’t presume that someone is perfect because you feel butterfly-ridden over them. You will only intimidate yourself out of being their partner.
People want partners, not worshippers.
That young lady wants to be with someone who isn’t just attractive to look at and fun to be around, but she wants someone she can talk to, relate to and be comfortable around.
So you’re going to have basically get over it. EVERYBODY is nervous when they first start talking to the opposite sex in an interested way. Just take a few slow, deep breaths, compose yourself and go talk to her and get to know her. There is literally no other way to do it.
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You just gotta do it man. I know it seems hard but if she likes you, nothing in the world would make her happier. Just do not make it awkward k?? That’s literally the worst thing that could go wrong. Just don’t be super cheesy like get down on your knees (unless she’s into that stuff), just kinda ask her casually but make sure you guys are alone, it makes it ten times better.
You just gotta do it man. I know it seems hard but if she likes you, nothing in the world would make her happier. Just do not make it awkward k?? That’s literally the worst thing that could go wrong. Just don’t be super cheesy like get down on your knees (unless she’s into that stuff), just kinda ask her casually but make sure you guys are alone, it makes it ten times better.
Miss Savannah is correct, @diego.
Nobody ever timidly stumbled into success. You will not find a passive and inadvertent way of asking someone out. You are going to have to compose yourself, walk up to her, look her in the eye and communicate how you feel. Even if that runs the risk of rejection.
Remember that dating isn’t just about kissing, being together, feeling the butterflies and having sex, relationships are largely about a sense of security and stability. If you convey that security and stability, you will find yourself largely attractive to other people, because that is what literally everyone is looking for in the end.
Ask yourself ”What makes a person secure? What makes a person stable?” and adopt those things into yourself so that you personify them.
It also helps to take the other person off of any pedestal you may be putting them on: for instance, nobody is perfect. Don’t presume that someone is perfect because you feel butterfly-ridden over them. You will only intimidate yourself out of being their partner.
People want partners, not worshippers.
That young lady wants to be with someone who isn’t just attractive to look at and fun to be around, but she wants someone she can talk to, relate to and be comfortable around.
So you’re going to have basically get over it. EVERYBODY is nervous when they first start talking to the opposite sex in an interested way. Just take a few slow, deep breaths, compose yourself and go talk to her and get to know her. There is literally no other way to do it.