stillhisbunny posted an update 10 years, 2 months ago
i figured out that the ”listeners” usually wont let you talk about how you feel. they just want to talk about what they think. the don’t want to get to understand what you’re dealing with.
If you clearly state that you want them to listen and not suggest advice, sometimes they get the message.
If you clearly state that you want them to listen and not suggest advice, sometimes they get the message.