Was It Love At First Sight?

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This question is mainly for the people who are either married and/or in a long term relationship. If you’re in a short term relationship at the moment you can answer too.

My question: How did you know the person you are with right now was the one? Did you feel something special or was it just a risk you were simply willing to take?

Category: Tags: asked December 13, 2013

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They say, "when you meet the one, you just know" for a reason. And it's hard to understand until it happens to you, which it will. For some, it may be soon, and others might find it later on in life. It's a feeling like you've known this person before and the more time you spend with them, it feels like you're remembering them, not finding out things about them that you didn't expect. It's when you two just understand each other without having to communicate or getting into arguments to prove one's point. It's when you wake up in the morning and instead of getting out of bed, you just lay there and stare at them and don't know why you're doing it. Somehow, they reminds yourself of who you are and what your purpose in life is. You know you find the one when you can finally see the clear differences between love and lust. Most of the time, it happens really quick too. I guess that's they called it "falling in love" because all of the sudden, you're head over heels.
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We met randomly online so hardly love at first sight :P In addition, I was kind of rude to him initially as well so I thought he thought I was irritating. I even helped him pick out something for his girlfriend who he almost married. A year later I really started getting to know his heart and I realized how beautiful he was, how much I had misunderstood him and how everything he did was just because he loved people. That he always told me the truth about myself even though it was hard to hear (because he cared about my growth as a person). And he was the only person who actually genuinely cared about me in my life. However, upon this realization I didn't want to tell him because I didn't want to take advantage of him because by this point it had come out that he was interested in me (which initially took me off guard). It's sort of a long story but I think I summed it up pretty well. We've been married for seven years. I'd say we fit well together :) We're a lot alike but we complement each other in all the right areas. Overall, he makes me a better person and I hope I do the same for him. He's always telling me how thankful he is for me so I guess I do. He's my best friend.