My girlfrined recently revleaded to me that she never has liked making out with anyone and hates it, and that she doesn’t want sex, and only did it with other people because she felt pressured into it. I love her with all of my heart, but I want all of that too. I want to respect her desires, but its a real kick in the ass personally. Tips and help?
Uhm, why don't you have a talk about what sexual engagement will be in your relationship? So far you know she doesn't like to randomly make out, and she needs to be comfortable with having sex with you. Have a talk about what will happen about it for you two in the future, tell her what you want, discuss of it can happen, if you get a confirmation that things will not work for you, and you will just be frustrated and unhappy and thus make her unhappy and miserable, yeah, make your decision about staying or leaving.
Move on dude! Being physical may not be everything in a relationship but it is pretty fucking important. It is no more fair for her to make you feel as if something is lacking than it is for you to pressure her into it. You might can keep her as a friend if you want. But find your love somewhere else.
So she clarified some things, but it is really annoying. She said she likes kissing, but she doesn't like making out unless it leads to "Sexy time", but generally she just wants to "push peoples faces away". She keeps talking about how much she loves me and wants me. It is tough because we have been together for a year now, and I don't want to leave her, but this is upsetting to me. Should I still leave her?