Long distance relationship advice?

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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly five months and I’m happy with him and he’s happy with me. At the moment we aren’t in a long distance relationship, but I’m moving away. And I’m moving like 40 miles away and both of us have busy schedules with work and volunteering and sports ( especially our summer conditioning as it is now). I do love him and I’m kind of stuck on how to get through this because neither of us could bear to be without the other but it’s definetly going to be hard to keep a relationship when I’m trying to start a new life. Any advice?

Category: Tags: asked July 3, 2014

5 Answers

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A long distance relationship requires a lot of effort. If you do not think you can handle the distance or properly maintain it, then its best to end it before it gets harder. But if you really love him and he feels the same you will both find a way to keep in contact. Send little texts throughout the day, stay up a little later at night to talk on skype or the phone, etc etc.I've been there and it can work if you want it to! But you have to REALLY want it to work. Both of you.
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Long distance relationships are very hard and require a lot of patience. If u and your boyfriend truely feel that your relationship is worth it than it can last, with some effort. Make sure u don't lose hope, or forget your feelings for each other whilst your away. Talk everyday to remind each other.
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Long-distance relationships suck. My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years, and the first two years of our relationship were long-distance. (California-Pennsylvania, Arkansas-Australia). And believe me, it's really rough. BUT there is an upside! If you and your boyfriend are both willing to put effort into the relationship, then it will definitely work. It's hard and you are both going to be stressed and have to work much harder at the relationship than you are working right now. But, especially if you have an end date, it makes it a little bit easier. Good luck, girl!
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Long distance relationships are really hard sometimes. You can try set up a a date to talk each week on skype. this video might help https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6YJiPxc35E good luck!
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It's going to be hard. That's a given. But i find if you send little messages of what's going on during the day instead of huge long accounts of what is going on helps. When you feel like you have a lot to say or a lot going on that's when to whip out the skype or send a call his way.