I miss my old friend!!!

So me and this guy have been best friends for 3 years, until this summer in July or so, we started fighting a lot because he never cares about me, is mean to me blah blah. And the fights became so intense that he stopped talking to me. When I asked a friend to ask him why he said: “She creates too much drama.” .. And now I’m all alone in the whole school, even his friends won’t talk to me. I don’t get it..I miss him so much and It’s really hard seeing him at school having fun. I don’t get it how he dosen’t miss any bit of our friendship! We made so many plans and we had such great times I don’t know how he can just throw that away. Anyways, please help? I really need him back I’m just too scared to try talking to him. I really doubt that he misses me though, but recently I’ve noticed him looking at me and today we made eye contact! So awkward. Sorry for the long question. :/

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Uni

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Maybe you should talk to him and see if things can be sorted out. Maybe he misses you too, and thus keeps looking at you. You've been his best friend for 3 years! I'm sure little fights can't destroy your friendship. However, if you do feel that he has really changed you might want to rethink. It was not right from his part, to tell your friend that you create too much drama, but maybe he did so because he was asked to. Its true that sometimes even the best of friends change, no matter how hard it is to accept;and at that point all you can do is let go, and if they ever realise they will come back. Since you are in school, the constant changes in people around you might startle you, but you will soon get to know how to deal with it. So as I was saying, talk to him, maybe all of it was just a misunderstanding. Good luck :)

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violet

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Hi there, first off i guess you're question is to how to get him back? Well to answer that question I would really do suggest that you talk to him and get to the reason why he really broke up with you, there may be some deeper reason to it all...Anyways, I guarantee you, like a 100% , if your friendship is as strong as you believe, that he DEFINITELY misses you. Everyone's essentially an actor, you can't just judge someone's inner feelings based on how the *seem* like outside.I had a similar situation like yours with a female friend I had 2 years ago. We broke off last december. So we were the bestest of friends. We were so close with each other that I shared everything, EVERYTHING with her. We talked everyday and joked and had fun together and made plans for the future etc. but she fell in love with me. But I just couldn't accept it neither can I let our relationship go but I did eventually, cause, I know how much pain she feels and how she needs to get away from me. (She wanted to cause she knew that I didn't love her back the same way she did) And now, even now, I still miss her and wonder why I didn't love her back then but it really seems like she has moved on. Which I have to do now.So my main point is that, maybe the guy has some other problem that he didn't tell you about.. maybe he didn't but it's up to you to find out. And then, if worst comes to worst, and he has really moved on (which i really doubt), it's up to you to move on too, and accept that it's really over. :/Wish you all the best and I'm here if you need any other advice! :)

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Snooze

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