I lost my best friend to a jealous girl :,(

Its unfortunate such a thing occurred, but there aren't a lot of options in this situation outside of you moving forward and trying your best to be thankful that you got to befriend him for the time that you did. Perhaps fate had Chancler serve his purpose in your life. If he allowed another person to dictate who he associates with, then getting any closer to him could have led to greater stress and heartache for you, as he doesn't appear to stand his ground, but stand through the strength of another; in this case, the other friend.You can try talking to him about this, about how you just want him as a friend in your life and that if this other friend of his really cared about him, she wouldn't try to control his life. But really, all she is doing is what he allows her to. So he's quite in control when he choose her association over yours.It doesn't necessarily say anything about you. I do hope you can make another friend though. Plenty of people here willing to listen to you.

That's totally understandable! Losing someone you trusted and could talk to is heartbreaking and it can take a while to get over if you don't have anyone else to talk to! Don't beat yourself up, think about it, if you were dating a guy who was also talking to this other girl, would't you get slightly jealous?What I suggest is just to give him some space and maybe try to talk less, not stop completely, but just sort of allow him to please his girlfriend so she isn't on his case as much.And just so you know, you can always message any of us, myself included, if you have anything you want to talk about. I am going through some shit too right now so I definitely know how it feels to lose someone you loved talking to so much. In fact, that's reason I am on this site. Good luck! And remember, if you need help, you can message any of us! We love helping! :)