I feel sexually attracted to my aunt.

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She is not blood related, has been divorce for a lot. I am over 18 she is 50ish. We almost never see eachother we live in different continents. I sent her a text (dirty) that supposedly was for a friend and she said my friend was lucky and no worries for the error. A few days later i told her that i had sent her the mesaage to see how she reacted because she attracts me sexually. She typed for half an hour but didnt reply. The next day we swa eachother and it wasnt that akward . I later textedher i was sorry and she told me i shouldnt regret it. Does she want me? Do i freak her out? Am i mentally fucked up? No ignant stupid answers please, this is not a troll.

Category: asked December 26, 2013

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Is she already in a relationship? You are brave in communicating your thoughts and feelings with her, but be careful to respect her wishes. If she is not replying and does not bring it up it is likely that the advances are unwelcome. Respect her boundaries and do not limit yourself - explore other outlets for yourself as well.
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it is okay attraction is natural. she might not know how to feel because you are so young and so straight forward with it but you are reeeally brave for putting yourself out there like that!
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this is shocking, but honestly all i can say is i think your sexually frustrated one way or another, I wouldn't continue it just for the sake of it, you said she got divorced for a while now but that doesn't necessarily hop onto the opportunity since she is very much older then you, just go out and enjoy everything and everyone and hopefully you can find someone you are attracted to :) xoxo
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I agree.. your totally not fucked up .. <3 just need some attention from someone
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It could be she has no idea where to start to get out of this situation and hopes that by ignoring it it will all go away. You made your move, now it's time to keep yourself busy with other stuff, she either brings it up or acts like nothing ever happened for the rest of your life.
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I think you may be confused and are attracted to someone much older for a specific reason but I wouldn't ever tell someone they are "mentally effed up." Besides, the very fact that you are questioning if you are screwed up says a lot. To answer your questions - it's obvious that she's not really all that freaked out by it but I could be wrong. And even if she does want you I don't think it would be appropriate or wise to pursue such a relationship either.