Here’s the deal,
I came to study in university, and my mom tagged along “I’m just going to stay for a while, so you don’t feel alone” and naturally, I embraced it, thanked her for it, but told her, that that would not work. For so many reasons, its such a bad idea.
Its now my second year of uni, and she is still here, better yet, my brother left his previous school and came to live with us.
Obviously, I’m pissed. Angry, in fact. So angry, that its literally hard to have normal conversation with her. I mean, she tricked me, she lied to me. This was her plan all along.
Keep in mind that she is a woman in her 50s, divorced, unemployed. All she does is lay around, taking meaningless courses and volunteering – and naturally me and my brother are her life, she has nothing else to live for. This might sound like I’m exaggerating but believe me, its the truth.
And do not get me wrong, I am grateful to have her in my life, and I do love her to bits, just, not all over me, all the time.
Tried talking to her about it, but it doesn’t help. Not only does she not care, but she’s the type of person that bottles up everything till it eventually blows up in your face. Just recently (today) she hit me, and full on pulled my hair, as a result of the many arguments we have been having. She also insulted, and humiliated me.
I’ve thought about just running away. But, I love what I’m studying, and that would mean giving it all up. Honestly, I don’t know what to do, but thinks have crossed a “limit”. I need some kind of help.
