So I have a crush on this guy but he likes someone else and she likes him. He’s going to ask her out soon too. He wants me to tell him who I have a crush on and I really want to but I’m afraid that it will change our friendship. I’m afraid things will be awkward between us when we hangout because we are friends so we do hangout a lot. I’m afraid that he’ll think I’m only hanging out with him to get him to like me more instead of hanging out with him because I actually really like him. I’ve liked him for 7 years now so I can’t just forget about him. And I’m not allowed to date anyway yet so even if he did like me too its not like we could do anything together. But every night its so hard for me to fall asleep because I keep thinking about him and I feel like there’s this big weight on my chest since I’m not telling him. I want to but I’m afraid it will change us. What should I do?
