Am I selfish?

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I moved in with my dad over a year ago because I missed our relationship… But when shipping out of state I feel like I just became a huge burden on everyone, everything I do feels wrong. I have a boyfriend who I love and I was telling him my family made me feel this way, but recently his mom was diagnosed with a high risk cancer.. I try to be there for him whenever he needs, but now he’s never there for me… Leaving me feeling worthless and even less important… Is it selfish to want him to make me feel important..? Is it wrong to still look to him for support with my depression? Is he better off without me…

Category: Tags: asked October 15, 2013

2 Answers

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It's not wrong to want someone to be there for you. You should tell him how you feel and then it could lead to the both of you discussing what is going on in your lives. Whether it's one the phone or in person just ask to vent to him for 30 minutes and then he could vent to you for 30 minutes. Or at least enough time to get what you need to say off your chest.
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Well be up front tell him how you feel its best to tell him now than harbor the feelings of worthlessness to yourself. You will feel better if someone knows. Good luck