about my current relationship :(

what shud i do, i mean its about my current relationship, we’ve been for almost 6 years now and as time passes by i feel that my love for him is not that strong enough, been thinking of living my life without him and i just cant say it to him coz i know i might crushed his heart, i wanted him to just give up on me and tried talking it to him but he insist that my love will eventually comeback, but it didnt. and the reason why i felt this way bcoz he dont have anytime for me, we see each other so rarely, communicate rarely and his always on his online games and he just cant give up on that game.. im so confused.. he got mad sometime when i tried to stop him from playing. HELP!

Category: Dating & Relationships asked January 15, 2015

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Mar

6 Answers

Okay I see how this is a challenge. You want to let him go but you can't, You love him, yet you don't. Personally I would try to take the first step to spice p your relationship. communicate with him more hang out more. Even go on a date at a restaurant more often, if you keep doing this it should keep him busy from his game. If that fails, then I think its time to consider breaking up with him. Let him no that if he isn't going to put in any effort than there is no point in you sticking around. But before you do that make sure that you can actually picture yourself without him and working towards moving on because even though no one says so it truly is hard on the dumper as well. It will be okay in the end! :)

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Shy/Smart girl

If you are no longer in love, no longer happy in the relationship then its time to move on and find your happiness.

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dobigurl

Thanks guys!@shy/smart girl yeah ive been on a date with him nothing happens. im into breaking up with him but considering his wonderful family, i just cant. you know. im so confused, hurt and clueless on what to do :( @dobigurl thanks!

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Mar

When the relationship feels more like an effort and not something you can enjoy, the love is no longer there. I think you'd be happier with another. Have a long think about the relationship, do you still love him? Is he worth making the effort for? I don't want to tell you to ditch your relationship as it's a long term one but consider your other options.

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♡ Alayna ♡

You no longer loving him is the main problem. The rest can be worked on, men play games I know it's irritating bUT it's better than him cheating on you. At least you know what he's doing is somewhat innocent. I think that the relationship is salvageable just sit down and really express to him what's going on you can't be worrying about his feelings because your feelings are involved in this as well. Hope it helps.

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theghost

thanks guys :) i will talk to right now and hopefully he will understand and somehow accept that im not for him and he will certainly find someone better than me in God's perfect time :)

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