A girl that I may love may get back together with her ex

There is this girl I like. She used to date one of my friends for 7 months but then they had a really bad break up. I tried to help her feel better and get out of her depression over my friend. I have been trying to get her to go out with but she says all she needs is a good friend. So now me and her are the bestest friends and I found out that she has feelings for me too, and me for her. Then 3 days ago my friend and her started to talk again , and now it seems like she’s ignoring me and my heart is now breaking and falling apart. I don’t know if their going to get back together but I don’t know what I’ll do if they do because I promised I would always be there for her and I think I may be in love with her. I need some help to go through this.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked March 23, 2013

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Anonymous

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well its natural and although its hard to deal with, you can get through it!

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Jane

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It seems this person hasn't quite grown to the maturity that you have. While you cannot forbid someone from talking to another person it might just be that she's not settled into the same idea that you've came to. But @littledeath is right. Communication is the basis of every relationship and you have got to talk to her about you feel even if it seems impossible to get her to quit ignoring you. This isn't healthy for you. Relationships even friendships should not be this hard.

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Swifting

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The best thing I suggest is to tell her how you feel no matter what happens. Because things can actually work out or if they don't at least she'll know and you won't feel as bad once she knows, get me? Things will probably get weird like they said on top and it's true they can get weird but it goes away.. and y'all are friends and y'all can get through it and also like you said you told her you would always be there for her.. sometimes if even if it hurts you seeing her with the other guy all that matters is to make HER happy and even if she's not happy try to make her happy. Whatever happens, happens for a reason. Always remember that!

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weirdsoul

Use your words! Open up the lines of communication now so you are both aware of where you are standing before anything else develops. As close you are as friends, being completely honest with your feelings is the only way to know how to move on from here.

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big ears

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