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HBenson said 9 years, 6 months ago:

So me and my boyfriend who is a year older than me have been dating for a while now. He has asked me about going all the way but I always told him and my self that I want to wait till marriage or at least till weve dated longer. What can I do to make my self less afraid of that topic and not get him to turn completly away and turn off every emotion because i shut him down?? HELP LADIES! btw im 15 so i dont think i should really be considering sex.

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Deleted User said 9 years, 6 months ago:

Tell him you feel as if you aren’t ready emotionally, it goes against your views/wishes, and that you hope he can accept that because relationships aren’t all about sex! It’s good to see that you are willing to wait, choosing the right person takes time! Just be calm and sit him down to discuss this, allow him to speak his mind but let him know that you don’t want him to just shut down but be an active member of the discussion.

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