I’m worried about my love life

I'm a girl. I rather have a guy who's different than a "normal" guy. I'd rather have a nice guy. Jocks are overrated. Don't worry too much. One day you will find someone. It sounds cliché and I never believed I would, but I did only a few nights ago and all of a sudden I believe again. It will happen to you too, have faith.

In the end the " good guy" always wins. Stay true to yourself. The right person will appreciate you and it will feel natural. The wrong girl just wants attention and does not respect herself enough to see what is good for her. Just be patient.

You are either young or haven't had enough experience to show you not to put the idea of women on such a pedestal thinking about wanting to have sex with them makes you feel like you aren't being a good guy. There is nothing wrong with looking at a girl and thinking how you'd enjoy having sex with her. This is apart of what makes you human, and the typically the first stage of attraction between two mamals; and you are that. Women may often complain about guys only wanting them for that, but that's typically the girl who doesn't realize that every guy that is sexually attracted to her isn't just after her for sex; physical attraction is door you walk through to get the rest of what makes this person interesting. So firstly, stop fighting your desires to want more than being the best boyfriend ever; because if you come off too sensitive, in the long run she won't feel like you have much to offer than being a good boyfriend, as opposed to a husband or life-long companion who they can turn to for protection. You can want to be all these special things to a girl, but don't be that guy who doesn't have his own life because he devotes his every breath to his girlfriend. Make sure you have your own life and desires outside of her. Because how can you share a life with someone if you don't have your own to share with them; you make someone your everything and one of two things happen: when they leave you feel like you have nothing or you put so much pressure on them to be your everything that you drive them away.