What you’re experiencing is called ”disillusionment”, and what you need to do is sit your S/O down and re-define your relationship. Talk about whether or not you even trust each other, or if you even CAN trust each other again.
Now is the time for that tough talk, to put all of the bad cards on the table and not hold anything back. There is not always a happy ending, sometimes it is just time to move on, and it is better to find that out the hard way; by openly asking it, than by the most painful way, finding out years later after blood, sweat, and tears have gone into the relationship. Those are years that cannot be regained.
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Hello @ashleybrooke93,
What you’re experiencing is called ”disillusionment”, and what you need to do is sit your S/O down and re-define your relationship. Talk about whether or not you even trust each other, or if you even CAN trust each other again.
Now is the time for that tough talk, to put all of the bad cards on the table and not hold anything back. There is not always a happy ending, sometimes it is just time to move on, and it is better to find that out the hard way; by openly asking it, than by the most painful way, finding out years later after blood, sweat, and tears have gone into the relationship. Those are years that cannot be regained.
Sorry I didn’t reply sooner. Thank you so much for your advice, it definitely helped.