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    Vaib posted an update 10 years, 4 months ago

    Hey there, I am in serious dilemma of long cherished but now lost relationship, please help me to vent@tamrawr

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    • Well I have been in a relationship for last 6 years and it was pretty smooth. Though I knew that my partner is not the perfect person in the world, but I loved all that way. In the later half of my relationship, I planned to help my partner to overcome her shortcomings and the result weren’t that successful, hence in the beginning of this year, I pretended my self to be harsh by setting a condition for her. She was some what immature and took things in life pretty lightly especially things pertaining to herself, her growth and career. She had been struggling pretty hard to clear her graduate and was stuck for nearly 2 years all due to her immature and casual attitude. Hence, I set s condition for that I shall only meet of she is cleared her grades, and very much into the real world. Well this thing, set things worse. She assumed that I am not interested anymore and started to seek options. In A months time, she initiated a parallel relationship. The problem is that since day 1, I stood beside her and supported and pampered her on daily basis, and we had pretty usual relationship. But last week, I became aware of the fact that she has another person in her life and compelled for truth because that is the key thing which acted as bond among us. Later on, she declared to both of us over con call, regarding her parallel relationship with both of us and admitted, that she has been cheating. Now the dilemma is that some time she states that she is still in emotional bond with me but at the same time, it is guilt she has for the other person. After, few days she further confessed that she has crossed all the limits with other guy and can’t leave him. The dilemma is that since day 1 and till yesterday she wants to stay in touch with me, shows that care with me, foster love, but strangely asked me to Move on.