Bummer. The Missed Connections forum is gone. I’m gonna have to post it here. Feature-rich crate to jubilant stove: Just give yourself time to cry, reminisce, and do other forms of grieving. It will let go of all excess negative feelings unwittingly having such feelings spill out at the wrong time in the wrong place. Once you feel alright, just forget the bad side of the past and move on. Sorry, the Internet disconnected me. Have a good day!