GBWest said 9 years, 5 months ago:
Set up a carrot and stick system, would be my suggestion.
If you study 3 hours of programming today, you get to drink a beer, have a cake, or ironically, play a video game. If you don’t study, you have to do 200 push ups, sit ups, and rock climbers. If you recognize you’ve given some one a “cruel opinion” on something, no cake, just push ups. Just a few examples.
The point is, it’s a SMALL carrot and stick system. Just to go from waking up in the morning to going to bed at night. Suddenly, 3-6 months from now, you can tell me exactly what page to go to in the book to program a certain thing to happen in a video game. The depression and difficulty with women will slowly disappear as you get better at programming, and are forced to interact with others (ie, meet others) to design the game, get it published, whatever.
The only problem with this is that it requires quite a bit of mental strength, which is going to vary from person to person. So, I leave you with this: Stop trying to do it, and just do it.
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