joeyb said 10 years, 8 months ago:

There is a lot going on with my relationship with my wife right now. She says because of my self loathing and self control issues our relationship is struggling. She says she is getting tired of my blah mood all the time, she says she is tired of my self control issues in bed, and that I don’t last long enough when we are having sex. She wants to try a more Female Lead Relationship. and that we should withhold from having intercourse during sex. I”m struggling with this.